This simple word “YES” contains all the religions of the world. It contains trust, it contains love, it contains surrender. It contains all the prayers that have ever been done, are being done, and will ever be done. If you can say yes with the totality of your heart, you have said all that can be said. To say yes to existence is to be religious, to say no is to be irreligious.
That’s my definition of the atheist and the theist. The atheist is not one who denies God, and the theist is not one who believes in God — not necessarily so, because we have seen great theists who never believed in any God. We have known Buddha, Mahavira, Adinatha: we have known tremendously enlightened people who never talked about God.
But they also talked about yes; they had to talk about yes.
God can be dropped as an unnecessary hypothesis, but yes cannot be dropped. Yes is the very spirit of God. And yes can exist without God, but God cannot exist without yes. God is only the body, yes is the soul.
There are people who believe in God and yet I will call them atheists, because their belief has no yes behind it. Their belief is bogus, their belief is formal; their belief is given by others, it is borrowed. Their parents, priests and teachers have taught them that God is; they have made them so much afraid that they cannot even question the existence of God. And they have given them promises of great things if they believe in God. There will be great rewards in heaven if you believe, and great punishments in hell if you don’t believe.
Fear and greed have been exploited. The priest has behaved with you almost like the psychologist behaves with the rats upon which he goes on experimenting. The rats in psychological experiments are controlled by punishment and reward. Reward them, and they start learning the thing for which they are rewarded; punish them, and they start unlearning the thing for which they are punished.
The priests have behaved with men as if men are rats. Psychologists are not the first to dehumanize humanity; priests were the pioneers. First the priests behaved with men as if they were rats, now the psychologists are behaving with rats as if they are men. But the process is the same, the technique exactly the same.
There are people who are theists — believers in God, churchgoers, worshippers — and yet in their hearts there is no yes; in their hearts there is doubt. On the surface they behave religiously, deep down they are suspicious. And it is the depth that determines you. It is not what you do that is decisive, it is what you feel at the deepest core of your being that determines you, that creates you. And there are atheists who go on saying there is no God, but they are not in any way different from the believers. Their disbelief has as much doubt in it as the belief of the believers.
In Soviet Russia, in China, and in other red countries, disbelief is the belief; not to believe is to be a conformist, to believe is to be a revolutionary. The state goes on teaching that there is no God. If people are taught continuously, conditioned continuously, they become whatsoever they are conditioned for. It is a kind of mass hypnosis.
Theists, atheists, both are victims. The really religious person has nothing to do with The Bible or the Koran or the Bhagavad Gita. The really religious person has a deep communion with existence. He can say yes to a rose flower, he can say yes to the stars, he can say yes to people, he can say yes to his own being, to his own desires. He can say yes to whatsoever life brings to him; he is a yea-sayer.
And in this yea-saying is contained the essential prayer.
The last words of Jesus on earth were: “Thy kingdom come, thy will be done. Amen.” Do you know this word Amen, what it means? It simply means “Yes, Lord, yes“. Let thy will be done. Don’t listen to what I say, I am ignorant. Don’t listen to what I desire; my desires are stupid — bound to be so. Go on doing whatsoever you feel right — go on doing it in spite of me.” That is the meaning of the word amen.
Mohammedans also end their prayer with amin — it is the same word.
Yes! First, it is not a question, hence it is significant. It is a declaration, it is a dedication, it is surrender, it is trust. If you can say yes with totality, with no strings attached to it, with no conditions, with no desire for any reward, if you can simply enjoy saying yes, if it is your dance, your song, then it is prayer. And all prayers reach God — whether God is mentioned or not, whether you believe in God or not. All prayers reach God. To reach him, a prayer has only to be an authentic prayer.
Your yes should not only be a prayer. It should become your very lifestyle, it should become your flavor, your fragrance. Down the ages, religions have been teaching people life-negation, life-condemnation. Down the ages, religions have been telling you that you are sinners, that your bodies are the houses of sin, that you have to destroy your life in order to praise the Lord, that you have to renounce the world to be able to be accepted by the Lord.
Life-affirmation, not life-negation, is religion — because God is life, and there is no other God. God is the green of the trees and the red of the trees and the gold of the trees. God is all over the place. Only God is. To deny life means to deny God, to condemn life means to condemn God, to renounce life means you are thinking yourself wiser than God.
God has given you this life, this tremendously valuable gift, and you cannot even appreciate it. You cannot welcome it, you cannot feel any gratitude for it. On the contrary, you are complaining and complaining and complaining. Your heart is full of grudges, not gratitude.
When the dancer disappears in his dance, he is divine. When the singer disappears in his song, he is divine. Rejoice so deeply, so totally, that you disappear in your rejoicing: there is rejoicing, but there is nobody who is rejoicing. When it comes to such an optimum, there is a transformation, a revolution. You are no more the old dark ugly self.
You are showered with blessings. For the first time you come to know your grandeur, the splendor of your being. Say yes to life, say a total yes to life.
Osho: The Book of Wisdom Chapter #7 Chapter title: Learning the Knack Q 2
आशिक़ी से मिलेगा ऐ ज़ाहिद
बंदगी से ख़ुदा नहीं मिलता ……………….दाग़ देहलवी
āshiqī se milegā ai zāhid
bandagī se ḳhudā nahīñ miltā…………..DAGH DEHLVI
God is found in Love, O priest
Not in piety.
“Mein chahu tujhko, meri jaan bepanah, fida hun tujhpe meri jaan bepanah.…” is one of the many soulful songs of KK…It’s his total affirmation, acceptance and “YES” for life…beautifully weaved by Sayeed Qadri, composed by Pritam and sung by KK. (2275) Zara Sa Dil Mein De Jagah Tu Full Song (lyrics)।KK।PRITAM।EMRAN HASHMI।SONAL CHAUHAN।JANNAT – YouTube
7 thoughts on “YES !!!”
Always a pleasure to read and gain lot of insight. A very good beginning of the week .
Nicely explain as usual n it’s great that u can find an appropriate song
Beautiful thoughts…one word that can take us beyond 🙏
Amazing. Whenever I read your post I learn something. Amazingly written as always. Great one uncle..
Amen to that 🙂
Amazing thoughts … very well presented. Makes you think out of the box.
Feeling Blessed as we all the time keep experiencing ‘Yes’.